David came into our lives through a church member – he was doing odd jobs for our friend. David is well educated, has a good family background and is pretty hardworking, he doesn’t steal but does tell half truths, or sometimes even complete lies. Why? Well, because he needs to lie to get some sympathy money from people to feed his drug habit. He has been an addict for over 20 years.
I asked him how he got into it – you see, David was holding a good, supervisory level job at a big hotel in Kuala Lumpur. But he was stressed up at times and when he was, his friends taught him to use “harmless, cool drugs” to get over it. Unfortunately the “little, harmless-one-or-two drags” became a lifelong unbeatable habit. Oh, he has been to numerous rehab centres, some run by the church and some by the government, sometimes on his own by “cold-turkey”, but he never managed to beat it. His family gave up and disowned him, but left him a house to stay in and through which he can collect rental from housemates.
He started to visit our church sometime last year and has been dropping by every now and then, most of the time, to try to get some money for his fix. We stood by our decision to help him financially only if he agreed to go for rehab. He tried… and failed…again. It was a queer relationship, he would come to church now and then, he would get upset at us….. he asked for money ………. we would offer food and other support. But he continued coming and then suddenly stopped, and we didn’t see him for a long time. A few months ago he apeared, a very bitter man – he said “I have hepatitis and only a few months left to live….how can God say He gives us abundant life? What have I done to deserve this? I have never murdered, or stolen, I only con some people. What kind of life do I have?” I looked at him with pity and told him firmly, “You know you have a few months left – the choice is yours …. live it as a miserable person or …. make the most of it – make it as meaningful as you can, with God” and then he disappeared again in anger……
Well, he has come into our lives again. Only this time, his doctor confirmed that he is having stage four lung cancer. 2 months ago, we thought we were going to lose him, we sent him to the hospital, a very sick man. But he recovered and I think he is no longer bitter – he comes to church regularly with a smiling face. Yesterday we received a call from his doctor that the cancer has spread to his brains. He will be warded at the General Hospital, Oncology Ward 4A. His full name, Yoong Kang Loong.
We only have a short while more to care for him – do take turns to visit him. Lets make his last days on earth a meaningful one – and pray that his family will respond. We have called his cousin.
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